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Speaker 1: Welcome to the
Healthy, Wealthy and Wise
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podcast with Dr William Chokta,
MDJD. Our mission is to empower
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you with the knowledge and the
tools you need to thrive in all
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aspects of your life. Join us
now as we discuss everything
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from nutrition and exercise to
money management and personal
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growth. Dr Chokta will provide
insightful advice on how to
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improve your physical and
financial health, as well as
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your emotional and mental
well-being. Whether you're
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looking to boost your energy
levels, unlock financial freedom
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or cultivate a more positive
mindset, we've got you covered.
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Get ready to become the best
version of yourself? So let's
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get started. Here's Dr William
Chokta, MDJD.
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Speaker 2: Welcome to the
Healthy, wealthy and Wise
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podcast. I'm delighted to have
you with us today, and today we
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have a very unique topic. We're
going to talk about leadership,
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and we're going to talk about a
number of issues, but we're
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going to talk about it from a
unique perspective. We're going
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to interview a very outstanding
and dynamic young man by the
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name of Vincent. Vincent is 17
years old and he's a member of
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that Gen Z group that we hear so
much about. I'm the favorite of
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Vincent. I'm the extreme, but
one of the things I have learned
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is that the Gen Z individuals
have a unique perspective on
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life, and not only is their
perspective on life unique, we
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can all benefit just from
talking to each other and
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exchanging ideas. So this is the
thrill, the surprise, the gem
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that we have for you today. As
always, I like to start off with
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my beliefs. I believe that life
is about being of service to
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other people. I believe
knowledge is power. I believe
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leaders can change the world.
This is part of our masterclass
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series, these podcasts, and
basically it has to do with
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healthcare, it has to do with
education and has to do with
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spirituality. One of the areas
that we're going to dev into is
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the education area and how that
has impacted us individually and
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indirectly. And so we're going
to talk about education from the
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perspective of our interviewee
today, vincent, and have him
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just sort of bring us up today
with what's going on and how
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things have developed in his
life. He's at a very unique
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flexion point in his life and
we're going to have him talk
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about that and how he got there,
what he's learned and what he's
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doing to move on. As always,
we'd like to give you an outline
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, and the outline is that we're
going to introduce Vincent to
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you shortly. We're going to talk
about leadership. In addition
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to that, some of the challenges
that he's gone through,
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certainly in terms of the COVID
period. We're going to talk
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about soccer, which is one of
the loves of his life, and how
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that is important to his
development and how that has
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helped him, and about his
outlook and his plans for the
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future. As I said, we all know
that the Gen Z is a unique
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generation, and a couple of
things that have been said about
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this generation is that they
tend to be the lonelier
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generation. I'm not exactly sure
what that means, but I think
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part of it means that they have
not had a privilege of the
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socialization that a lot of us
sort of grew up with, and so
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they tend to use their phones
and their computers and insulate
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themselves and calm themselves
and learn in ways that a lot of
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us, certainly back in the baby
boom generation, did not learn.
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One of the other issues that's
said about the Gen Z generation
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is that they are more diverse
and they're more comfortable
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with diversity and those of us
back in the baby boomers and
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others who've struggled and
fought the wars and this, and
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that the Gen Z folks don't worry
about that a lot. They just
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sort of go with the flow, and
that's a good thing and that's
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something that I think that we
can all learn about in terms of
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what we have to do and that sort
of thing. Thank you issue that
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came up when I did some research
was that they are also very
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concerned about their mental
health, which I found
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interesting and to some extent,
unique. So, not to spend too
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much more time, let's go ahead
and get into it, let's get right
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on it. So, benson, why don't
you tell us who you are and how
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old you are and what state you
live in?
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Speaker 3: I live in the state
of California, I am 17 years old
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and I am going into my senior
year of high school.
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Speaker 2: Okay, you go into
your senior year of high school.
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Were there any things that you
learned? Well, let me back up.
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Has your journey to your senior
year of high school been easy or
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has it been hard? It's been
challenging. What are some of
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those challenges?
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Speaker 3: For. The first one is
COVID.
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Speaker 2: How was that a
challenge for you?
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Speaker 3: It was a challenge,
because I'll do middle school.
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That's when COVID really started
to come up. Okay, yeah. So I
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mean we thought that for stream
break we were going to get two
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weeks off or three weeks off
because COVID was rising, ended
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up turning into two and a half
years of no in Persian school.
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Speaker 2: Two and a half years.
So how did you adjust to that?
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Speaker 3: So some kids can
agree with me, some kids will
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not. I feel like throughout my
eighth grade year coming into my
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high school, my freshman year,
and we were all online and it
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was hard but easy, because for
me, I had more distractions in
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school than at home but at the
same time, I had the ability to
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pick and choose when I could do
my schooling at home. Vice versa
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, if I would go to school, I'd
have that time set where I'd
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have to go to this class at this
time, I'd have to do homework
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at this time, or so, on and so
forth, so you had more
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flexibility. Basically, yeah, oh
, okay. And I feel like a lot of
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kids take advantage of that and
got their classes done, and a
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lot of kids didn't take
advantage of that and that
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resulted into kids losing credit
to their freshman and sophomore
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year because they didn't
fulfill the requirements they
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needed to. Okay, okay so what?
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Speaker 2: so from an academic
point of view, do you think
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COVID or the pandemic and being
out of school that created time
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where you had to do everything
on zoom? I guess? What was that?
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A plus or minus for you?
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Speaker 3: Both because well,
let's get into the pluses I was
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more focused, I was more
dedicated into getting good
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grades because I mean I wouldn't
want to not graduate because I
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missed credits my freshman year.
A negative component of that
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was there was a lot of issues
with the computers and a lot of
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issues with the, say, the
internet. Say, basically, your
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class rely on the internet and
if the internet went out, I mean
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you can't do your class. So I
feel like also that's why a lot
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of kids struggled, because maybe
they didn't have an internet
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and they couldn't go to school
or didn't have good internet.
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Yeah, good, okay, okay.
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Speaker 2: So did you have good
internet? Oh yeah, I could do.
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Okay good, how did you deal with
not being around your friends
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and that sort of thing? Was that
a plus or a minus, or how did
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you adjust to that?
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Speaker 3: To be honest, it was
a plus because it was a
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transition to a grade to high
school. So in middle school, I
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feel like that's when kids start
to, I guess, develop into their
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own selves and start exploring
more, because I mean, you're
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basically graduating from
elementary to middle school and
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I feel like middle school is
where you really get to
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experience that change of
getting six, seven classes a day
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, getting six, seven different
teachers, having to do PE,
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having to do hardcore PE for the
first time. Okay, yeah, and I
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feel like my friends were a bad
influence on me. In what way?
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Smoking gangs, all that. So as
soon as I was isolated from that
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environment, I mean I found new
friends that can provide a
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better environment.
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Speaker 2: Interesting. So it
was a plus because it allows you
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to separate from the present
group that was there at the
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school and gave you the
opportunity to just look at
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alternative associations, and
that was a plus for you. It was
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a plus for me. Excellent,
excellent, what? Have you been
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involved in any type of
leadership at your school or
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related to your school and, if
so, tell me about that.
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Speaker 3: I'd say I was captain
of my varsity soccer team for
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about three years now.
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Speaker 2: Okay, and how did
that come about?
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Speaker 3: Freshman year
Everyone. If you're going into
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high school freshman year, no
matter how good you are, you're
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going to start at JV.
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Speaker 2: As junior varsity.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're going to
start at JV for your freshman
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year. Okay, all students, I
don't care how good you are,
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you're going to start at JV,
okay. Okay, you're going to
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start at JV, but maybe as the
year progresses, you get bumped
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up. If you're good enough, okay,
I'm going to start at JV for
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the freshman year. I'm good,
energy and I bring the
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competitiveness to the game.
Okay, and I feel like not a lot
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of players on my team had that
drive to win. It was like. It is
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what it is if we lose, like, no
, like.
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Speaker 2: And why do you think
you have that drive with that
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competitiveness?
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Speaker 3: Because I honestly
feel like I get it from my
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grandpa and my dad to be honest,
my mom too I feel like that's
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just my family. I mean, we, if
we're going to do something, we
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do it well, okay, and we strive
for the best. So I believe that
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that's a reason.
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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay.
Have you ever? What would you
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say, you learned in just
sticking with the COVID for it,
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right? What was your biggest
lesson that you learned during
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the COVID time, during those few
years that you, you know you
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couldn't go into the classroom
and that sort of thing that you
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think will help you, you know,
as you continue on your journey
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as an adult?
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Speaker 3: I feel like the
lesson was if you don't work for
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it, you won't get to where
you're going to be at, for
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instance. Like for an example I
mean I could barely do 20
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juggles in the backyard starting
out when I first got back into
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soccer and now I can do 100 easy
. So what? What is a?
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Speaker 2: juggle For those of
us who are not a soccer player.
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Speaker 3: Basically, if how you
juggle with your hands, you
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juggle with your feet. Oh, okay,
so okay.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, so your skill,
your physical skills, that
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improve significantly.
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Speaker 3: But also my mental
skill, because, I mean, my coach
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is a pretty wise man. He told
me that it's all about the
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mindset and the dedication to
get you to where you want to be
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at, and I feel like, with all
the adversities that are faced
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and the Bumper that I've gone
past, I'm fulfilling the
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requirements to achieve my dream
, which is to put major league
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soccer, or typically college
soccer, okay, okay.
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Speaker 2: And that makes sense.
And one of the things that
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we've said repeatedly on these
podcasts is that what you
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believe affects how you think
and what you think affects how
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you feel and how you feel
affects how you act. But I found
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it extraordinarily interesting
that it's 17, that you sort of
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figured that out, and I think,
again, this may be something
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else that's exemplary of you,
gen Zers. Yeah, and I think that
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you you recognize the
importance of that and by
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starting with the most important
area first, in other words,
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your mindset that a lot of these
other things blow and they blow
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more easily or more effectively
for you than some of the rest
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of us that sort of struggle with
more and more things to be
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concerned about. Why is it that
you like soccer? Is it unique
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about soccer or, as compared to
other sports, for you?
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Speaker 3: Well, I think it's
can argue that I mean some of
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the just football, baseball et
cetera, so forth. But I feel
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like soccer is really been a big
part of my life since I've grew
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up on it. I've played it since
I was four, four and a half. My
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mistake was was I took a break
for about eight or eight or nine
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years. I took a break for a
long time because I mean like I
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kind of didn't believe myself as
little. I was like I stopped
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playing at 10. So about seven,
no, about, yeah, about seven
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years. To be honest, like when I
started getting back into it,
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it was just like the drive and
the love of the game again and
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the passion of the game that
really got me to love the game
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again or love it more than I
used to. And with all the the
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positiveness around me I mean my
dad mentoring me every day
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before I joined the Barça club I
mean it was just a good
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experience. And now, since I've
gone through that and I mean I
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don't know, it was just a crazy
experience because I mean,
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compared to when I was 14,
barely starting now, I mean it's
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just been a crazy, crazy life
story, to be honest.
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Speaker 2: Well, let me ask you
this what would you say is your
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greatest talent or skill that
you've developed over time?
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Speaker 3: I'd say two of my
greatest talents and skills are
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being able to take things in and
letting things go. To be honest
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, from, say other people are
like. Also my ability to control
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my emotions. Okay, because when
I was little I would have
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angered issues, anger management
classes and all that. To be
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honest, I don't think it really
helped me, but I feel like since
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COVID since I doubled it on my
own and I learned to control it
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on my own, it was just like a
way for things to just settle
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down and for me to calm down.
Okay. But yeah, and another
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skill is, I mean, my soccer
journey. To be honest, that's
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one of the things I'm most proud
of, okay.
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Speaker 2: You know it's
interesting when you said not
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let things bother you. I have as
part of my basic principles
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don't sweat the small stuff, and
most stuff is small Coming to
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the same conclusion that you've
come to that most of the things
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that aggravate you or upset you
or whatever are really not as
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big a deal as you think they are
At least not at the time and
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that what you'll find is you
just let them go and put it in
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perspective and it's not that
big a deal. Okay, excellent,
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think about it. What's a good
academic subject that inspires
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you? You know of the subjects
that you're taking, so let me
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ask you what is your GPA?
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Speaker 3: My GPA is a tool
coming from my junior GPA this
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past school year, or was it?
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Speaker 2: 3.8? 3.8, okay, what
is a particular subject or class
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that you've taken that really
inspires you, that you really
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like?
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Speaker 3: Well, it's just kind
of a class that I'm going to
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take, okay, all right, coming
into my senior year. Okay, I'm
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really interested and I think
it's going to change my
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perspective on how I see things.
Is AP Psychology?
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Speaker 2: AP Psychology. Ron,
congratulations for taking an AP
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class. That's always good in
high school. I remember that.
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But what is it that fascinates
you about psychology?
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Speaker 3: I want to know, or
want to be able to understand,
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how the different parts of the
human might think and what
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components of the brain allow us
to think that way.
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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, In terms
of the and why. What is that
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fascinacy In terms of the human
body and that sort of thing
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Overall.
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Speaker 3: I mean, I would want
to pursue in the medical field
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and I would want to be some type
of doctor in the future. So I
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feel like AP Psychology gives me
that kind of kickstart.
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Speaker 2: So you're interested
in going into medicine. Yes, oh,
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that's always good. That's
always good. We certainly like
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that. Yeah, always good. Another
question, and I'm just randomly
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asking these things what are
you passionate about? Listen,
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john, what?
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Speaker 3: are you passionate
about what bars you up? What
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excites you. To be honest, I
feel like Bakri, yes, but also
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like working out by myself. Okay
, explain that. I mean it's just
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like kind of like a therapy,
like going out for a run or like
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doing something by yourself
that just like like just gets
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you to feel like I guess gives
you a dope, new rush of feeling
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good, like feeling refreshed. I
mean, you did this by yourself.
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When you say you didn't want to
do it and you still did it,
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that's also a mindset thing.
That's something that I learned
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that even if you don't want to
do it and you still do the thing
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that you don't want to do, it
will pay off again.
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Speaker 2: Well, it's
interesting, there are a lot of
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professional athletes talk about
that in terms of that mindset,
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even just individuals who
exercise a lot, in terms of the
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mental health benefit of
exercise. Yeah, you know, and
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you mentioned accomplishments,
you know you don't want to do it
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, you know, but then you do it
anyway. Then, after you do it,
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you feel better, and those of us
in the health care field we
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call that therapy. That, indeed,
is a type of therapy and it's
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something worth continuing to
keep us healthy, wealthy and
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wise, as we like to say. What
would you say is your biggest
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strength and what would you say
is your biggest weakness?
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Speaker 3: Oh, academically or
just in general. Just in general
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, I'd say, my biggest weakness
is, I'd say, like academically
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is math. Okay, well,
academically is math. I'd say my
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biggest achievement is learning
how to understand math in a way
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that it's just a formula that
you need to master. Likewise,
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soccer is just a formula.
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Speaker 2: You need to master.
If that makes sense, it does
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make sense and what I like about
it is that you took your
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weakness and made it in a
strength, that I would argue
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that if you have a weakness that
you know of and you're able to
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attack that weakness and convert
it or change it or modify it so
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that it is less of a weakness
and more of a strength, that's a
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huge achievement. Thank you
again for listening to our very
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unique, healthy, wealth and Wise
podcast today. This is the
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first time that we've
interviewed a Gen Z member and
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one of the things that a number
of things we've learned one is
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that even at age 17, members of
the Gen Z generation have
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learned how to take adversity
and turn it into a strength, and
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that's clearly something that
we can all do when things happen
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in our respective lives.
Interestingly, I found that when
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listening to someone doing
COVID, particularly those in
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junior high school and high
school we hear the downside
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about how it's difficult for
students and how the grades have
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dropped. It's good to remember,
like Vincent, that some of
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these students actually did
better with a more organized, a
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slower, a more restricted, a
more controlled environment that
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they were. They were able to
take control of their
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circumstances, and I think it's
important to understand that Gen
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Z is different from the rest of
us, not to mention the fact of
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their dependence and use and
integration, if you will, of
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technology, and that includes
the artificial intelligence,
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chatbot technology, for it's the
Gen Z generation that would be
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the first generation, among
others, to take that into our
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colleges and universities when
they begin to enroll in the next
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two to three years. Thank you
again for being with us today
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and have a wonderful day.
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